Aita for dressing up too much at my kids school I was one of them and it was pretty normal in my social circles and now I am a teacher and know this from lots of students - from when I was 8 my parents left at 4:45 and 6:30 for work and I had to get up and ready on my own. Posted by u/Throwaway1920-1933 - 44 votes and 59 comments NTA!!! When my youngest was around 2/3/4 she was obsessed with dress up. Ex has every chance and any time with them. But then they both need their sleep. A TON of Disney princesses every year from kindergarten to seniors for the dress up stuff. He’s been my dad longer than my dad got to be. One point made by the opposition was that the kids wouldn't be able to be individuals. 197 votes, 45 comments. Blessing and a curse (losing my bio at 10 is the curse. 30. I listed piercings and acrylics as taking things Really should be "are we* the assholes" My husband and I took our 3 kids (4-6) to the private beach near our house. She encouraged her friends to wear costumes. Let‘s say that the mother fully believes that this graduation is all about her, she’s the only one that thinks that. I (34F) have a (5M) son who attends preschool. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here Whatever about my sister, I know her kids are not to blame for any of this and I know I treat the nieces and nephew's on my husband's side extremely well but I have never ever wanted to even meet my nieces and nephews and saying they are not my problem might make me not such a good person because they are innocent. 🤷🏻‍♀️ My kids won't wear coats to leave the house if it's above freezing and my oldest will wear shorts until it's in the 30's. My daughters are very into fashion and I think they are very good at dressing up and making outfits. My children do not own dressy clothes. I talked to my dad about the dress/suit problem too and he’s not any nicer about it, insisting on how weird the photo would look if I’m the only one wearing a suit. Kind of hipsterish. thank you! I can’t tell you how much this warms my heart. I have a problem with this. I had her here with me for 2 weeks during the summer but man I’d give anything to spend every weekend with her. Apr 17, 2025 · Aita for dressing my kids inappropriately for the weather the forecast today is 55° Fahrenheit, 12. Two years ago, she was the most perfect daughter with amazing grades and spent her time being productive. (21M) currently living with my grandfather and my younger (18M) and older (26M) siblings. Throwaway for privacy reasons I (20F) have been dating my bf (20M) since we were in high school. I don’t blame her for bringing up something she feels is inappropriate, but this just isn’t as problematic as she seems to think it is. A few years ago, my sister was invited to my MILs house for Halloween (she has two kids I'm very close to) and I had to beg her to dress covered up because my MIL is an old Catholic woman in her 80s who already wasn't impressed with me dating her son, and when she showed up in booty shorts and a corset with everything hanging out in was utterly This has caused such an uproar in my family and I feel like I'm going crazy over here. Posted by u/kolije4487 - 16 votes and 78 comments A western/USA equivalent would be its okay to dress up as a rapper, but a bunch of prep school kids dressing up as "intercity youth" ("thugs" "niggers") would be rightly skewered, even if the costume itself would be very similar. There are some guidelines for the grade school but they’re very loose. My husband answers to mine, far more gracefully than I answer to his. She is 12. We have gone shopping for dress clothes for all the But you never know, some siblings love to dress alike. My attempt to flip the situation backfired spectacularly. Same as a favorite plush or blanket. She told me what I was wearing was inappropriate for picking kids up from school. Last week my parents and sister were in the living room when I got home from school and my parents told me my sister wanted to play games with her friends, computer games, and that they thought since I had a gaming laptop I NTA. She goes to a private school, set her up a college fund, and she has much better things than most kids (phone, clothes, etc). Whatever makes them happy. I wish we lived a world without gender norms. I asked her when it became my responsibility to feed her son, and she responded that if she had known I wasn't sending Gregory to school with "too much food," she would have handled it My teenager dressed up as Eeyore last year for a school dress up day. Unknown to me, one of our colleagues, recently back from rehab, was trying to enjoy the party sober. I just want her to be happy. The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week Tonight with John Oliver AITA - my husband and I have been friends with another couple for several years and have done everything together. My Dad died in June and my children and I wore NICE CLOTHES. I'm an only child and my(18F) parents divorced when I was 8, my dad remarried when I was 12 and for a while everything was fine, but after a few years of living there with them I started to notice that my dad preferred my step-brother (13 now), they did more things together and started to ditch me to go to his games, his plays, his tournaments. To be fair - a lot of kids around that age have to get ready on their own because their parents already left for work. The oldest kids still have to go to school and the youngest needs all-day care, indefinitely. OP, I hope your daughter stays away from you. I'm pretty senior at a very highly regarded organisation and what I've worn over the years hasn't stopped me having a career. My 14yo gives better than he gets and hes quick too. At this, my now-SIL very maliciously told me that I was setting my daughter up for narcissist behaviour. 9. My kids have my ex and my husband, my ex does very little with them, but they were young when husband came on scene and he too has put in more time as the dad than the ex. We had a couple odd ball teachers (in a good way) with kids at my school, and most of the kids could vibe with it cuz they were also like their parents (well liked, but a little odd), but some couldn't. If it’s pink, sparkly, and a dress, then she’s wearing it. " When I went to talk to Kacy, I found her struggling to zip a too-small dress, and the size 14 dress (the one she grabbed) was hanging up and had burst open at the side. Now that I have kids, I prefer kid-free weddings so we can go out and party without worrying about being responsible for keeping a toddler safe. During this dinner, my sister asked my son (17m) to make her wedding dress. Since they both have very good grades and are well behaved, DH and I like to take them shopping when we have the chance. Her idea of dressing up is a dark cardigan, black leggings, and boots. A mom started drama when she asked her wealthy mom-friend to stop sending her children over for playdates in fancy clothes that her children then wanted. Her dress makes her a target for harassment and unwanted attention. 1M subscribers in the AmItheAsshole community. When I talked to another mom yesterday we spoke of how our kids probably wouldn't be dressing up. I just laughed it off thinking that she was joking, but she was dead serious. I might've been rude and hurtful to her and my sister, making me the asshole. When we got to the party, the birthday girl came to greet my daughter, and she was also dressed as Princess Aurora. A few hours after I picked him up from school today, I got a phone call from his teacher. Like, don't-come-to-Christmas uproar. I believe that what's inside is what makes each an individual. I was like, no way am I dressing up like that for a stupid kids' concert. The dress is dark blue and it's not very noticeable. I had no intention of having her dress up as I didn't have anything in the closet that could pass. The next step should be gathering evidence first. I constantly wear big platform boots and at one point my hair was half red, half blonde (split along a side part). I told my daughter to dress up modestly I might be wrong here because well it's her body after all and she could dress up however she wants Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. I said then the kids gotta get up earlier, which she was not happy about. I've had so many discussions with them about why this stuff is bad. When my daughter got home from school and my wife saw that I let our daughter wear her nice dress to school, especially as she got a pit of ketchup on it. Also, the age of the kids. Some Background: My husband (35m) and I (34 f) have 6 year old twin girls. You bet she’s gonna get the biggest, most sparkly dress out there, and I’ll happily pay for it. this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. My 10 year old always wants to wear shorts, I've let her before knowing it's too cold because she kicked up a fuss. Your wife's reaction was hilariously over the top. The teacher sent home a note on Monday saying if the kids want to they can dress up as a pilgrim for their "history" party. So, I was allowed to wear a dress like twice a year. He's a lawyer, I'm an author/illustrator for children's books, and during the lockdown I have had much more free time to spend with the girls. 8 degrees Celsius all day and overcast I told my kids they could wear short slash skirt and a light jacket how I was also dressed my wife slept in and when she came down 20 minutes before driving them to school she refused take them because they aren't dressed warmly enough and she didn't want Gregory followed my instructions until one day last week I got a phone call from Peter's mother. It's whether her husband is so psychotically cruel that he'd intentionally torment kids who just lost their father, or if he is just too dumb to realize that he unintentionally tormented said kids and absolutely should apologize profusely, repeatedly, and ASAP. When I got back I noticed that my wife left her packed lunch on our kitchen counter. NTA op. My wife dropped off our kid at daycare this morning and noticed all other kids were dressed up in their Halloween costumes. In other words, he has started to wear graphic tees that are 1-2 sizes too big that he has had since high school that have cracked/half missing lettering on it with basketball shorts and occasionally crocs. Both have a pretty large group of kids who mix and match masculine and feminine clothes, including boys wearing skirts. Tell your sister she doesn't have to dress modestly either and can dress up for the meeting too to look her best. If she's on the list of approved people she can go through the office and from there get to any room. Not 16. I apparently surprised her by being capable of doing household chores and tasks, which I didn't think much of. That's actually very naive because we'll be a target whatever we wear. YTA. My daughter says that I am an AH because rules around how girls should dress are sexist and shouldn't be enforced Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ Kids are getting a lot more accepting. I told him he’d have to manage. She said that dressing her up in white for someone else's wedding was a very attention-seeking move on my part . It’s not like she’s wearing your bras and underwear, it’s a sweatshirt. My mom thought my allergies were colds and that wearing dresses would make me cold and get more colds. One of my most painful memories is still the time my sister was allowed to wear a dress and I had to look like an ugly boy (IMO) in pants. AITA for dressing up too much at my kids school? 🤔 (u/fitboss68)Make sure to subscribe for more daily Reddit stories 🎥🤣 AITA for dressing up too much at my kids school? 🤔 (u/fitboss68)Make sure to subscribe for more daily Reddit stories 🎥🤣 About #RedditStories #AITA #RedditStory #RedditCheating #RedditStoriesCompilationWelcome to Human Experience r/aita, your ultimate destination for the most intrigu About Press Copyright Contact us Creators Advertise Developers Press Copyright Contact us Creators Advertise Developers In the UK, kids wear uniform, but we do dress down days, sometimes to raise support/awareness of charities, other times just because it's fun. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Now the problem, I love the movie enchanted, there is a second one coming up now and I wanted to rewatch it, I did it with my SD and the oldest one loved it, she really loves princesses so she loved the idea of a real life princess, she said that we should all be princesses, I suggested having a tea party like in the movies, I asked my husband Jumping to conclusions with the barest of evidence is the whole point of AITA. It brings her comfort dressing in moms clothes. Some places you can. Especially young women. I really want to get out of this area ahhh! I (f59) kept my name, and we gave my name to our kids. Follow the link above to learn more Posted by u/Throwaway10029q - 1,835 votes and 1,063 comments There's 11 kids in her class. I wouldn't spend a ton of time outside in 16 degree weather (like a kindergartener would at an early recess) but I couldn't be bothered to put on my coat to walk across the street to my house from school if it was above zero. I couldn’t wear shorts at all at school (but my friends could) because I “had too much skin showing” like sorry I have like 3 feet of leg to show. I love fashion and do tend to dress up. He agreed, but said that he needed time and that he would need her opinion constantly. Dressing up is a far cry from eyelash extensions and acrylics. Rarely wear make up or dress myself up. Needing to dress up for 10 minute errands and having a mental breakdown over not wearing fancy clothes is not normal. I still managed to raise her to be humble and not take things for granted, and she's one of the hardest working people I know, always making sure to get good grades and keep her room tidy. I dress that way too, because that’s how I’m comfortable with others viewing me. Nov 15, 2023 · "AITA for 'dressing up' too much at my kids' school?" I F42 was told by my husband M51 that I shouldn’t dress up to go to our child’s elementary school. I personally think I should be able to cook food at least three meals a day, let alone just one time. Basically what I've done is just play banter with them. Lots and lots of their friends’ parents had random names compared to the kids. Ladies at church were going to faint. Subreddit Announcements. Thanks so much from a stranger on the internet <3 I (f21) have been dating my gf (f24) for four months. I don’t like wearing jeans (I don’t like the feel and it’s hot where I live). My son has always loved design and fashion, he took technical courses in these areas and sewing, and even his friends keep asking for his clothes because they are so beautiful. In my forties I've discovered a real love of fashion - particularly shoes, but I don't follow trends, or dress to conform, in fact I'd say my fashion is pretty subversive in many ways. 8°C) and overcast, he let his kids wear shorts or a skirt with a light jacket. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place… I (38f) sent my daughter (17f) back to boarding school. 17 votes, 40 comments. NTA, of course. They call me lame saying im boring and I'm too stuck up. Dress up is like press on nails, and mascara. This is exactly what I think too. I was dumbfounded as I'd worn this particular tee before. I would absolutely dress up for a formal outing, particularly if it's for the benefit of my husband (and also myself) Nta. NTA my parents were just like this in highschool! it was never a problem for me because I always liked to dress up for school but my brother used to get yelled at! Don’t worry, it’s a generational difference. I asked her when it became my responsibility to feed her son, and she responded that if she had known I wasn't sending Gregory to school with "too much food," she would have handled it When we first started dating, he used to dress in nice shirts, nothing too fancy, and khakis. The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week Tonight with John Oliver NTA. ) That’s all true but also very naive. My comment, meant to deflect Jake's teasing, ended up being incredibly insensitive, affecting not just the colleague in recovery but also dampening the overall party spirit. ) and people saying what Cindy's doing now is still controlling, which makes almost too much sense. There was quite a few times we would pick her sisters up from school or go grocery shopping, or go to a park/the beach/etc with wearing whatever she felt like wearing. That's not our daughter's job--that's the school's job. 7K comments. It depends if it's windy and whether the wind is cold too. I like Stephanie she has been great with my kids and makes my ex happy. I wholeheartedly disagree with that statement. At least once a school year, there will be a pyjama day. 7 year old daughter who goes to daycare. I made sure they understood it was all in good fun and not serious. My ex is getting married to Stephanie. Kids couldn't wait to tell me how much they liked my hair or boots. Nov 23, 2024 · I'm very sure our kids noticed it too but I drove them to school after they got ready. My kiddo has sisters in their school two years apart and they liked to wear the same outfits. i got pregnant under bad circumstances and ended up raising my son alone for the first… Oh girl I’m in the exact same boat. Every relationship has give and take, this is where she needs to give and you take. Its just changed from 8. He looked great and took a picture with other kids who were Pooh and Tigger. The real question isn't whether OP is an asshole or not. I can’t wait to have my girl full time! I can’t even imagine choosing me time over time with her. And we've never been significantly late before, so I dunno anymore. My wife (41F) and I (42M) have been married for 15 years. if you want to avoid conflict take a page out of the book of girls with strict parents and leave the house in clothes and change I'm the same as you. My son is in middle school and I'm a high school teacher. I'm sure there is some bullying but there's also a vocal group of kids who come to their defense. His brother (12) goes up at 8. I was totally shocked by this. Now my GF mostly wears black/grey clothes that are quite baggy and shapeless. Considering the mother is this way as well, OP should make sure his daughter hasn’t been nit-picked and bullied herself within the home into feeling the need to display perfection all the time, or that he and his wife aren’t If the child is choosing these clothes, I am 100% in favor of the child wearing the clothes he chooses. 36 votes, 89 comments. true So a quick little backstory. obviously i don't want the kids to be late to school, but part of the issue is these kids don't wanna get up and get started. 18K votes, 1. Note I never said jack about her hairstyle or her clothing. I 26(ftm) and my fiance 24(m) have a 7 year old son together. Yeah, especially when the parent in question is a bit eccentric. The mom seems to be treating the child as an object she can play dress up with. My husband (21M) and his brother (25M) have always had a great relationship. His brother moved away when he was younger and even though they're now 2 hours apart, they still regularly talk and play games online together. This reminds me of my dad too and I’m fuming. We have a 2. We've never really dressed up. They're 9 and 11. As long as the pyjamas are appropriate, I can't see any reason (and have threatened my kids with) taking them to school in pyjamas. I told her that is definitely not the case, but there was a young child in this home and it wasn’t appropriate, she needed to cover up before leaving her room. . ” I F42 was told by my husband M51 that I shouldn’t dress up to go to our child’s elementary school. She made absolutely no effort to sound kind when she, in an extremely rude and annoyed tone, told me to stop packing my son such “disgusting and inappropriate” lunches. I haven’t spoken to my dad in 4 years and I’m still recovering from the damage his controlling nature caused. The OP is making too much of her mother’s outfit and offhand comment. They just kept it simple! My husband (51M) and I (48F) have 6 children (19M, 16F, 14F, 13M, 11M, + 5F), Our 16 y/o, Gianna is a junior in high school, our son Ryker (13) is in 7th grade. Small things at first like your face responses and we laugh. She goes, "Blah blah and Ok_Vacation will dress up appropiatly this time too! Nice white shirt and a tie. Or a friend offering to bring by some Tylenol when one of the kids is sick is such a relief. I have NO dressy clothes. My youngest daughter is the biggest dress diva in my family. My oldest is newly engaged & my middle child just moved into her own apartment. It was my day with the kids so it made sense for me to come was his reasoning. " I wasn't paying attention until I heard that. The world is a more dangerous place for women and girls. They grow up too fast. Now my kids are 7 and 14. NTA dress codes tend to be inherently sexist anyway I told my niece the dress she wore is a bit too much and it might've been better if she went for a more muted look, at my daughter's 18th (my daughter also felt like niece was trying to upstage her). Dressing up as fictional mice who happen to be blind isn’t a bad thing and is not even close to similar to black face. Just to clarify, because I've seen it brought up, mowing wasn't "my job" at home - it was a job for whoever was available and my dad offered that time. When we first started dating, he used to dress in nice shirts, nothing too fancy, and khakis. About three weeks ago, I was babysitting my nieces. I F42 was told by my husband M51 that I shouldn’t dress up to go to our child’s elementary school. She’s also a lesbian, and has been discussing getting married to her partner. Not 18. Maybe don't let him wear them to nursery or day care because it will cause an unnecessary headache for someone, but if he wants to dress up as Elsa and sing let it go My 14 yo goes to bed at 9. However, the sales associate pulled me aside and told me that a $250 charge for a dress that ripped would be added to my bill, since I was "taking care of everything. She says since it's making the kids late to school it is unreasonable. She checked in at the office. I said this to her but she told me I needed to 'grow up and dress better' and I was embarrassing my daughter. I was honestly confused and told her so. Time to stick together with sis and tell parent's to stick it where the sun don't shine. And I had TONS of them handed down from my cousin. As long as I show my ID at the front I'm sent right on through to the hallway and have access to the rest of the campus. Yesterday we hosted dinner on our house to celebrate FIL’s birthday and many family members came, including SIL. She was laughing so hard because it reminded her of when I did her braids for school. My two best friends decided to forgo buying me something and gave me money to get it and they came with me to pick it up. It’s just too much potential for something to go wrong. If I could’ve left and never saw my dad again at 15, I think I would’ve been so much happier. My daughter wanted to go as her favorite character, which didn't surprise me at all. AITA for having rules around how kids should dress, enforcing school dress codes 2. I am black and my kids shower twice a day sometimes 3 times. There were a range of dress from full tuxedos, jeans, to leather biker gear, but NO HOODIES OR SWEATS!! Pretty much this. Preach. I got a phone call yesterday afternoon from my ex-wife saying her ride bailed on her and she had no way to pick up our kids from school. You can dress your kids how you want and she can dress her kids how she wants. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Our father provides for all of us, we have a fairly good business paying bills and getting us some "luxurious" amenities like our Netflix Subscription, and we even have a Smart TV and 3 computers for each one of us siblings and even a PS4 Pro (We live in the Philippines, more or less a third world country) Two weeks ago, one of Aurora's friends from school threw a princess-themed birthday party. My kids run around in their boxers constantly when home and my older one loves to dress in Halloween costumes. He was on the quieter side and only really hung out with the same few people in school, while I have always been more outgoing and had/have a lot of friends. I used to buy my kids used designer clothes, including Hannah Andersen stuff that cost the earth ($40 for a toddler shirt, $70 for play clothes, which is straight up insane, but damn, that stuff lasts) for less than Walmart stuff. I was also wearing black jeans that I guess were a bit scruffy. I don’t like wearing jeans ( I don’t like the feel and it’s hot we’re I live). Jan 15, 2025 · RT pulled my daughter aside before recess and told her that she needed to keep her shoes on because she was “making the classroom stink. At two the kids are not the problem but some parents have stopped their kids from mixing with others kids for much dumber reasons and you may be running the risk of isolating him. My ex invited me to their wedding and I was happy for him. true. We all started hanging out at the same time - taking trips skiing, to Florida, dinners every weekend, hanging out with family, etc. I'd go with NTA. I have a really good mom and best friend who have been here for me and we’ve all read almost all 6,000 comments on here. The most OP could really do is help arrange and pay for childcare in the sister’s town (again, FOUR HOURS AWAY). A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales of your local reddit heroes seeking validation. He called after me that he couldn’t be expected to do his job if I left him out of the loop on things like keeping my child out of school. The other night she did it again and I just simply said, cover up. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here Gregory followed my instructions until one day last week I got a phone call from Peter's mother. She could dress up like a lighted Christmas tree with exploding fireworks and it still wouldn’t take a thing away from the graduates. My school did free school supplies donated by parents (or funds donated by parents for the school to buy the supplies that would be given for free) so if a family couldn’t afford school supplies, they could get a bag full of generic folders, notebooks, pens, pencils, etc. ” Days later, she called out my child's name in front of the entire class, prompting my child to put her foot down, the teacher thanked her and went on teaching. Unsuitable means exposed toes, never mind the lack of support around the heel and high heels btw. My 7 year old daughter (Elsie) has recently started to make mornings more difficult by throwing a fit when we ask her to get dressed for school. This is a throwaway since my husband sees my main account. My sister is a big feminist (so a Plus she lives 4 hours away from where the kids go to school. All though our kids’ school years, we both answered to “Mr Jenny’s dad” and “Mrs David’s mom”. My wife has spent the entire evening getting the stain out and claims I am responsible. Dec 9, 2024 · "AITA for bringing up just how much I actually do for our household to my wife?" Can't believe I actually have a reason to post something on here, but here I am. Once it was: rain boots, leggings, a ink, satin dress up skirt, pajama night gown and her winter jacket. and people who could afford it could buy and use their own school supplies. It's fine to me and I understand that she dresses for comfort. When his wife woke up and saw how the kids were dressed, she refused to drive them to school, feeling it made her look like a “bad parent. There were a couple Woody and Jessie's it there. Yes, zero dress code for pre-school and kindergartners. I’ll be completely fine and me and my (now ex) gf have broken up and gone no contact. That's how my kids' school is. I'm now starting to wonder if that's part of the reason. When I got to the car I vented all this too my husband who felt maybe I’d been a bit too brash and that the teacher was coming from a place of genuine concern for my The school more or less admitted that the students who were paired up with my daughter were difficult for the teachers to handle, and that my daughter was very good at calming them down from temper tantrums and at providing other emotional support. This was my thought too when people say "child free wedding" they usually mean screaming babies and young kids that can't shut up, run around, cause mayhem etc I think a 15 year old is more than capable of acting accordingly at a wedding. Sounds like she is better off without. well, when this other couple decided to get married they asked my husband to be in the bridal party and not me - which is a little hurtful but not a this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. Your parents are the ones with the issue that created your sister's insecurity in the first place. I would like to point out that clothes don't make the individual. Not 15. Fast forward to last Sunday, we're at my aunt's, and she's talking about the next concert this Friday. But that's almost besides the point. NTA, it’s a crop top, people have zero issue with 2 piece swim suits on kids, if you have an issue sexualizing kids maybe you shouldn’t be at a kids party, my daughter is 5 and loves makeup, if she wants to express herself I say let her, if you’re looking at my daughter and thinking “she looks like a teen” I think you’re a little For my 7 year old son we have 4 pairs of school trousers, 4 school tops and 3 school fleeces (obviously we wash through the week so he always has clean clothes) We also have 3 pairs of PE joggers with 3 PE tops and 1 PE hoodie (they only get changed for PE once a week but do physical activity for half an hour every day. He systematically murdered 17 million people, that’s all anyone needs to know about him. We co-parent our 3 children together and there haven’t really been many issues. The water is too cold to swim in… I didn’t want kids at my wedding reception for the same reason I wouldn’t want to go drink in a bar with kids running around. The girls wear princess dresses all the time and I haven’t heard her making a mountain of that, so… probably all kinds of icky double standard factors at play here, when you put it that way. We had spent around 1-2 hours in the kitchen because it takes us time to cook a full meal and clean up, which also usually means cleaning up their mess anyway, but I’ll get to that later. My wife and I did not dress her up for Halloween. My village is very small but man, my mom watching the kids so I can have a date night with my husband or attend work functions that fall outside of my usual work schedule is truly a blessing. So now I'm sitting here, just feeling like the woman I've known for 15 years hates me. I got soooooooo many looks at school or church functions. I argued for school uniforms when my kids were in school. We’ve tried setting her clothes Oct 26, 2024 · With temperatures forecasted to stay around 55°F (12. My kids can say hell but I dont encourage curse words, to each their own though. Furthermore, I found out when my kids shower and night they sleep through the night. She picked out things for me to wear too in her style too just to see how I would look and we took pictures together and danced. We hate buying costumes and have been a lazy about DIY-ing it. We cover too much, too little, in the wrong way. They shower in the morning, when they come back from school and during summer when the have played so much and worked up a sweat. But we don't. She looked beautiful in the dress, it was like I had always dreamed when she was my little girl, but she didn't look like herself. I fail to see how it’s inappropriate. You can't just go to the board and say "we all feel like our kids are being assigned too much homework," you'll need a list of all the homework assignments over at least a one week period, along with the actual time out takes each child to complete them. My own kids love it when I wear my crazier pairs of shoes/boots. Feb 19, 2025 · #reddit #voiceover #r/AmItheAsshole #subreddit She’s gotten in trouble at least once a month this school year for improper uniform, like rolling up her skirt so it’s too short, untucking and unbuttoning her shirt, taking off her blazer, wearing too much jewelry or makeup. AITA for “dressing up” too much at my kids school. My kids preschool had dress up shoes but no kid would be allowed outside in them and some preschools with different insurance may not be allowed at all. I thought it was the mom doing it but then I met the girls at a party and they very much chose to dress in the same themselves, same hair, same shoes, same everything but in different grades. She got angry and said she lived there too and accused me of being worried my husband would sexualize her. She soon realised there's a reason she should listen to me. I wear hoodies, sweats, jammies, basketball shorts DAILY. However my girlfriend is quite the opposite (black make-up and nails, oversized baggy clothes which she often gets from the men’s section). My college is quite conservative, and dresses that way too (typical shirts and jeans or shorts, not much style). Two of my children have sensory issues/on spectrum. Second, whether or not their school has a strict dress code, you get to decide how much freedom your kids have in the way they dress and groom themselves. I do like wearing dresses, but not fancy ones. 12 years old. I see my kids 2 of my kids dress up as rappers, they sag their pants wearing their pants below their asses, they rap about drugs and gangs, throw gang signs, blast horrific rap music. The kids are starting to have their school dances, the 7th grade dance is later this month and the junior banquet is in early May. I don't think I personally would be able to deal with that. SHE ONLY LIVES 2 MILES AWAY FROM THE SCHOOL!!! I told her she was just have to walk, it was literally the only time she had to do anything with the kids so far this school year. This simply isn’t a rational solution at all. (Obviously, if you send them to a school with a strict dress code, you don't have the freedom to let the defy the code during the school year. She was livid that I had cut Peter off without a single word. NTA. Our father provides for all of us, we have a fairly good business paying bills and getting us some "luxurious" amenities like our Netflix Subscription, and we even have a Smart TV and 3 computers for each one of us siblings and even a PS4 Pro (We live in the Philippines, more or less a third world country) YTA There’s a reason people don’t give a shit about the “different” side of Hitler. wqvdha awrrz kxdfzxr hain qier tgz ugrlxe mpt pibqi rodumv wws uuuyo yqygy pweyqg cqbii